When you go on a first date, you main objective should be to have fun; fun for both you and your date! You'll also want to indulge in stimulating conversation that is interesting for both of you.
Body Language
In any conversation, body language is the first to speak. If you can come off as confident, your body will relax causing you to lean in and smile more. This helps you become more open and more animated; great for letting someone in to know the real you.
If you are tense or not at ease with yourself, you will tend to sit back and you will smile less; maybe crossing your legs or even your arms. Another tell tell sign that you may be nervous is your eyes will be searching everywhere in the room. Women hate this as it seems something else is getting your attention. Understanding this will have confidence pouring out of you like a broken faucet.
Verbal
You've heard the expression "you are what you eat"; well in this case, "you are what comes out of your mouth. Your conversation skills will be judged on how capable you are at creating a conversation that your date finds enjoyable. This eventually leads to future dates. I'm guessing you're thinking this is obvious. If so, then you are right my friend. Now the question is....
How Do You Have Interesting Conversations?
The basis of good dating conversation will be a mixture of both asking and answering questions. This is how you get to know each other; the foundation of a great relationship. If you ask the right questions, your partner is going to have fun; ask the wrong questions, and it may be your last date with them. Rule #1 is to be yourself and don't lie. If you come off as evasive or give the impression that you are hiding something (not truthfully answering her questions), you may end up back in the sea faster than ever before.
Always keep in mind that questions are powerful. It's funny how when a person is asked a direct question which somewhat puts them on the spot, they are almost obligated to answer it.
Here are a few conversation starter questions for your first date:
-What's something you love to do in your spare time?
-What do you particularly enjoy about that?
-If you could go on a fantasy holiday, anywhere in the world, where would it be?
-What would you do there?
Always remember to ask open ended questions which will force your date to think and give more than a 1 or 2 word answers. I hate those types of answers.
By asking questions like these, you will a wealth of insight on your date. This opens up the door for them to tell you about good and bad past experiences.
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